Sometimes motivating your child to read can be very difficult. An important part of motivating your child is understanding why they don’t like to read and addressing it. Continue reading below for 2 common reasons why your child might not like to read and for 10 helpful tips on how to motivate them!
Why Doesn’t Your Child Like to Read?
Before you work on motivating your child, it helps if you understand why he resists reading in the first place. Which scenario depicts your resistant reader?
“Reading is hard!”
You probably wouldn’t choose hard work as a leisure activity, and that’s true for your child, too. If reading is a struggle, he probably won’t find reading interesting or enjoyable. If your child is a struggling reader, take a look at why this might be. Does he have issues with fluency, or have gaps in his phonogram knowledge? Maybe he’s struggling because he’s guessing at words or hasn’t developed strong vocabulary skills. It’s even possible he has dyslexia or another learning challenge. But whatever the cause, if your child feels that reading is too much work, begin by identifying and addressing his areas of weakness. As he becomes a better reader, he will enjoy reading much more.
“Reading is boring!”
For some kids, reading isn’t hard, but it isn’t interesting either. But it may be that they just haven’t found reading material that motivates them. Think about what your child loves to do. Does he have a hobby or special area of interest? Does your son like dinosaurs? Does your daughter like gymnastics? By finding reading material that piques their interest and draws them into reading, you’re giving your children a motivational boost.
10 Tips to Motivate Your Child to Read
- Make time for reading.
If your child has a jam-packed schedule and reading is shoved between gymnastics and band practice, reading may seem like an unwelcome chore. Allow reading to be a relaxing and enjoyable time, free from pressure.
- Set aside a regular read-aloud time with your children.
Choose a variety of high-quality literature that appeals to your child’s age and interests. Audiobooks are another great option for a reluctant reader. And don’t abandon read-aloud time when your children get older—no one is too old for a great read-aloud.
- Make sure the reading material isn’t beyond your child’s reading abilities.
The interest may be there, but if the book is hard to read, your child’s motivation will wane.
- Create a cozy reading nook.
A special reading space may be all the encouragement your child needs to settle down and spend time with a good book!
- Look for a variety of reading material.
Kids often gravitate toward the fiction shelves in the library, but don’t stop there. There are many other genres to consider: joke books, cookbooks, how-to books, graphic novels, and biographies are all great non-fiction possibilities. And children’s magazines can be a great out-of-the-box way to encourage a child to read.
- Try buddy reading with your struggling reader.
Buddy reading can help improve a child’s fluency and make him feel more comfortable with reading on his own.
- Have your reluctant reader read easy picture books to younger siblings.
This provides excellent practice, yet it doesn’t feel like work.
- Let humor work its magic!
Select a funny book at your child’s reading level and read the first chapter aloud. Then stop reading. If your child wants to find out what happens next, he’ll have to read it himself!
- Exhibit a love of reading.
When your kids observe that you love to read, they’re more likely to develop a love of reading themselves.
- Provide access to books.
Use your public library. Create a home library. Keep books accessible. When your child decides he wants to read, you want to be sure there’s a book at his fingertips. Our picture book and chapter book library lists are a great place to start!
Other Motivational Tips
- Pick books that feature topics and themes your child is already interested in.
- Let your child choose what they want to read.
- Make sure that books with higher reading levels have lots of illustrations and diagrams.
- Keep a reading log of completed books, it can be a great motivator.
- Read aloud together with finger puppets!
- Create fun and engaging activities that tie into the themes of a book your child is reading.
- Challenge your child to make up fun voices as he reads.
- Use one-page stories to get them past the fear of the story being too long. You can even write your own!